SO Shelly has created new catch phrase (yet again) and so i am trying to add it to my regular arsenal of stolen catch phrases. The Phrase is "In the Mix". it can be used pretty much anywhere but usually means something like "in the world", or around. so you could say:
Hey Eileen? I havent heard from you in a while! where are you in the mix?
Sorry I could'nt make it to your party Dikembe, I had too much going on in the mix.
Its tough to pull off, but I am trying. I will never give up...